Kissing on the first date....

Yea or Nay??

(I'll leave my opinion out for just a little bit....)

I guess it kinda depends, lol.

Dating honestly scares me sometimes, so I'm not too sure.

If you get that moment, then go for it

For me, it's always weird because most of the people that I fall for are the people that have never had a boyfriend before, so it's all something completely new to them.

I'm just going to have to say that you've gotta go with body language. What was that thing? The 80-20 rule? lol.

Haha, I thought it was 90-10.

I'd have to say no unless you've known that person for a while and know that you love them. Kisses aren't something that should just be given to random people, they should be special.

Well put, that pretty much sums it up.

maybe it is 90-10. I'm trying to remember a movie that employed this tactic. Hitch? lol. Those movies aren't quite my thing, but whatever :p

Yeah it was Hitch. I totally agree that kisses should be special, but I went on a date with this awesome guy day before yesterday and had the MOST amazing time so, naturally, I let him kiss me. Yeah, it was the first date and all but yeah....I don't wanna get all detailed or anything....

I think that it's ok if you have some sort of a connection with the guy/girl but you shouldn't kiss ppl just to kiss them....there needs to be feeling there....

Well, that makes one more person to help beat up your special...eh...'friend'

You may not even have to get the uncles involved

Congrats, btw

idk about me, I think I would be a bit afraid of being pushed away, lol. Some things are so impossible to judge :p

Why is it ALWAYS the GUY that has to make the first move!?

Cuz girls are more afraid of rejection than guys are....believe it or not....lol

And yeah I've thought about having him have a "talk" with dominic but it's still a little soon....lol

And thank you!

I've never kissed on a first date, but I'm not opposed to it. If its an awesome date and the two are really hitting it off, why not?

First, what exactly is the 90-10 rule?
And next, I really think it depends on what the people are looking for. Like if you are looking for casual dating, sure, why not? (and that is perfectly okay) But if you are looking for something a littel more constant and steady, then I would probably veer away from it.

Yeah their's nothing wrong with it if the feelings right but most times it's not.

Katelin wrote:First, what exactly is the 90-10 rule?
And next, I really think it depends on what the people are looking for. Like if you are looking for casual dating, sure, why not? (and that is perfectly okay) But if you are looking for something a littel more constant and steady, then I would probably veer away from it.

If I remember correctly, the 90/10 rule is when the guy goes in for the kiss 10% of the way, and have the girl go in for 90% of the rest of the kiss. Like, the guy initiates the kiss but the girl actually goes in most of the way for the kiss. I think its to see if both parties want to kiss or not. I'm not 100% sure though. Kinda get what I'm saying?

I think it's the other way around. Girls with the 10% and guys with the 90%.

Ah, I gotcha.
Seemingly a bureacratic idea for somthing as simple as a kiss.

Ah, yes. Brad is right.

EDIT: Wait, we're both right. Its whoever wants to initiate the kiss first goes in 90% and the other person 10%. I dunno, tis all confusing.

Guy comes 90% girl comes 10%...or if the girl is instigating the kiss then it's the other way around...

It's a rule to live by, I guess.

But in the end, kissing is about a feeling, not a mathematical process xD

Remember that!

Spishnittlestick wrote:It's a rule to live by, I guess.

But in the end, kissing is about a feeling, not a mathematical process xD

Remember that!

Agreed.

it can also be considered an art...unless you're a grandma in which case it should be considered a sin....

Well, I consider myself an artist.

Though I haven't kissed anyone in two years now.

haha xD

Don't see why not, a bit cheesy though.



I don't think I'm ever going to be a person who could not be awkward on a first date.